SELF RELIANCE

Confidence and reliance are at the heart of finding yourself. If you have been victimized in the past, confront these issues  they are not going to go away on their own. They might be coloring your approach to daily  life, causing you to live other people expectations instead of your own.
Start trusting your own judgement and decision making processes. Sure you are going to make mistakes from time to time, but so does everyone else. It's through mistakes that you will find yourself growing, learning and
reaching into real sense of self.
  Start taking responsibility for budgeting household, matters and planning about the future, people who lacks a sense of self tends to disregard the "details" of life with a care free attitude believing that things don't always sort themselves out. Taking responsibility pulls you back from the  precipice and let you be self - reliant and self - determined no longer carried along by the waves of fate.
Self reliance is one of the basic principles that can lead you to the path of your desire and destiny. If you can trust yourself, believe your self, take responsibilities of your actions whether it yields good or bad result then get prepare to be among the top notches in the world.
SELF RELIANCE KEY TO SUCCESSFUL LIVING

SELF DISCOVERING

For you to find yourself you must learn about your self. Finding the real you is an enlightening experience. You become self sufficient and do things yourself. A man of discovery is one who contribute to life in a positive way. Until you contribute to life that is when you become great in life. Self discovery is the ABILITY to unveil his hidden potential and talent to make a great impact in his generation. Finding youurself is not easy but, like the adage goes " it's worth"
STEPS THAT CAN HELP YOUR TO DISCOVER YOUR SELF ARE;
1. CREATE YOUR OWN TIMELINE:
write down all your major goals that you feel you achieved and wants to achieve. Write down the event in your life that have already happened that you believe have affected you. When life hits with problems or misfortunes it shapes our belief system and  makes us think differently but better yet, it makes us.
2. LET YOUR THOUGHTS BE DIFFERENT FROM OTHERS :
Life is pretty easy to go through while an auto pilot, we practically get handed a road map  for how reality works. Society has a very convert way of handling the beautiful alienating the strange but here is a head up. These describing words have no basis in reality.
HOW DO YOUR FEEL ABOUT THE WORLD AROUND YOU? THINKING ABOUT WHAT YOU BELIEVE TO BE GOOD AND BAD...... not what anyone else has to told you.  Feel free to think more concretely.
3 LEARN TO RELY ON YOUR SELF:
Confidence and reliance are at the heart of finding yourself. If you don't have solid sense of self worth, you listen to what others have to say all the time and to be swayed by their insistence on what is wrong, right and appropriate. Learn to believe in yourself and trust your own feelings then, you will come up with a structure to Base your new sense of self on.
Remember be patient with your self and confident in your abilities everything will come up with you.
ORGANISE YOUR WORLD :
you may find that having all your other affairs in order will help expedite the process to grabbing a firm hold on your identity. So clean your room. Do your homework. Resolve that fight with that friend. Getting everything else out of the way will clear up the path  to me on time.
Every one of us is born with a mind to do things  that can give God a rest the reason why God is not at rest is because man is not at work. There is a diamond mind inside of you which God put into your life make use of it and stop bothering God.
IF YOU CAN DISCOVER YOU SELF EXAMINE YOUR SELF MASTER YOUR SELF NOBODY WILL LIMIT YOUR EXCELLENT IN LIFE ONLY GOD CAN STOP YOU"THE SKY WILL BE YOUR STARTING POINT"

POWER OF THINKING

Your thinking navigate your life. You are a product of your thought in life. The quality of your thinking determines the height you will reach in life. Great dreams are predicated on sound and positive thinking. 
BASIC THINGS ABOUT THE POWER OF THINKING
1.Every thing tangible start from the realm of thinking.
2.You are the product of your thinking.
3.if you want to be different think differently.
4.Do not predicate your thinking on other people's view otherwise you will be a slave.
5.God will give you a dream that is in line with your thinking (your thinking determines the kind of dream you will receive)
6.for your deep thought to produce great work, you must go from SOMEBODY TO TODAY FROM THE REALM OF THINKING TO THE WORLD OF ACTIONS.
7.Bad result is a result of bad thinking. Good thinking bring good results.
8. Productive thinking is as a result of thought that are based on God's word
THINK GLOBALLY AND START LOCALLY.

LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE

We don't always knows what makes us happy. We know,  instead, what we think should. We are baffled and confuse when our attempt at happiness fail......  We are mute when it comes to naming accurately our own preference, delight, gifted, talents. The voice of our original self is often muffled, over whether, even strangled by the voice of other people expectations. The tongue of original self is the language of the heart.

BE KIND

I am sure you know what it means to be kind. But if you do not know, let me simply say, it is being generous, being caring about other people 
For everything we do, there is a reward for us. Being kind is no exception. If you are one of those that believe that being kind no longer pays, you need to read this : we all know how difficult it is  to obtain American visa these days, so it was on this faithful day a young man  went to the United States embassy to obtain a visa. He got there early and sat down  on a chair. It happened that an elderly man came and the young man rose from his chair for the elder to sit down. Unknown to him, an embassy official was watching him . That was how he was called inside and given a visa. No checking of documents. No interview.
BE KIND, KINDNESS HAS ITS OWN REWARD.

CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THE LIVE

1.If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
2 .If a child lives with hostility, he  learns to fight.
3. If a child lives with gives of ridicule, he learns to be shy.
4. If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.
5. If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
6. If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.
7. If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.
8. If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
9. If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
10. If a child lives with sanity, he learns to have faith.
11. If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns to find love in the world.